2 Corinthians 7:13
And in your comfort, we joyed the more exceedingly for the joy of Titus, because his spirit has been refreshed by you all.
See again how he exalts their praises, and shows their love. For having said, ‘I was pleased that my Epistle wrought so much and that you gained so much,’ for I rejoice, he says, not that you were made sorry, but that you were made sorry unto repentance; and having shown his own love, for he says, Though I wrote to you, I wrote not for his cause that did the wrong, nor for his cause that suffered the wrong, but that our care for you might be made manifest to you: again he mentions another sign of their good will, which brings them great praise and shows the genuineness of their affection. For, in your comfort, he says, we joyed the more exceedingly for the joy of Titus. And yet this is no sign of one that loves them exceedingly; rejoicing rather for Titus than for them. ‘Yes,’ he replies, ‘it is, for I joyed not so much for his cause as for yours.’ Therefore also he subjoins the reason, saying, because his bowels were refreshed by you all. He said not, ‘he,’ but his bowels; that is, ‘his love for you.’ And how were they refreshed? By all. For this too is a very great praise.
2 Corinthians 7:14
For if in anything I have gloried to him on your behalf.
It is high praise when the teacher boasted, for he says, I was not put to shame. I therefore rejoiced, because ye showed yourselves to be amended and proved my words by your deeds. So that the honor accruing to me was twofold; first, in that you had made progress; next, in that I was not found to fall short of the truth.
2 Corinthians 7:14. But as we spoke always to you in truth, so our glorying also which I made before Titus was found to be truth.
Here he alludes to something further. As we spoke all things among you in truth, (for it is probable that he had also spoken to them much in praise of this man,) so also, what we said of you to Titus has been proved true.
2 Corinthians 7:15
And his inward affection is more abundant toward you.
What follows is in commendation of him, as exceedingly consumed with love and attached to them. And he said not ‘his love.’ Then that he may not appear to be flattering, he everywhere mentions the causes of his affection; in order that he may, as I said, both escape the imputation of flattery and the more encourage them by making the praise redound unto them, and by showing that it was they who had infused into him the beginning and ground of this so great love. For having said, his inward affection is more abundant toward you; he added,
Whilst he remembers the obedience of you all. Now this both shows that Titus was grateful to his benefactors, seeing he had returned, having them all in his heart, and continually remembers them, and bears them on his lips and in his mind; and also is a greater distinction to the Corinthians, seeing that so vanquished they sent him away. Then he mentions their obedience also, magnifying their zeal: wherefore also he adds these words,
How with fear and trembling ye received him. Not with love only, but also with excessive honor. Do you see how he bears witness to a twofold virtue in them, both that they loved him as a father and had feared him as a ruler, neither for fear dimming love, nor for love relaxing fear. He expressed this also above, That ye sorrow after a godly sort, what earnest care it wrought in you; yea what fear, yea what longing.
2 Corinthians 7:16
I rejoice therefore, that in every thing I am of good courage concerning you. Do you see that he rejoices more on their account; ‘because,’ he says, ‘you have in no particular shamed your teacher, nor show yourselves unworthy of my testimony.’ So that he joyed not so much for Titus?’ sake, that he enjoyed so great honor; as for their own, that they had displayed so much good feeling. For that he may not be imagined to joy rather on Titus?’ account, observe how in this place also he states the reason. As then he said above, If in anything I have gloried to him on your behalf I was not put to shame; so here also, In everything I am of good courage concerning you. ‘Should need require me to rebuke, I have no apprehension of your being alienated; or again to boast, I fear not to be convicted of falsehood; or to praise you as obeying the rein, or as loving, or as full of zeal, I have confidence in you. I bade you cut off, and you did cut off; I bade you receive, and you did receive; I said before Titus that you were great and admirable kind of people and knew to reverence teachers: ye proved these things true by your conduct. And he learned these things not so much from me as from you. At any rate when he returned, he had become a passionate lover of you: your behavior having surpassed what he had been told.‘